NEW MONEY STORY® MENTOR TRAINING MANUAL
The Emotional Economics® of Money Mastery
TABLE OF CONTENTS
NOTES ON HOW TO USE NEW MONEY STORY® MENTOR TRAINING MANUAL
and THE WORKBOOK
INTRODUCTION
- Module 1. YOUR MONEY STORY
- The Power of Story
- Defining a Money Story
- Contentment Quotient: A Money Quiz
- What’s Your Money Story?
- A Money Story Exercise
- Three Tenses of Money Language
- What Money Costs
- Things You Value
- What Do You Trade for Money?
- The Challenge of Change
- Module 2. ROADMAP™ FOR A NEW MONEY STORY™
- Step 1. Recognize Authorship of Your Money Story
- Principles of Recognizing Authorship
- Your Money Equations
- Beliefs Ghostwriting Your Money Story
- The Anatomy of a Money Story
- The Four R’s: Repeat and Rationalize vs. Recognize and Reorganize
- Calibrating Intuition
- Step 2. Own Your Present Money Story
- Storylines That Define
- Peeling Back the Layers
- Assumptions and Motivations that Construct Money Storylines.
- Can You Make and Enjoy Money?
- Money Myths
- 17 Common Money Storylines
- Step 3. Assess Your Money Story Plot and Storylines
- Exercises for Awareness of Your Money Story
- Money Memories
- Money Meanings
- Money Maturity
- Distinguish and Address Ideals
- Distinguish and Address Needs
- Distinguish Wants From Needs
- Ideals and Needs Decision Tree
- Listen to Your Self-Statements
- Understand Conflicted and Contradictory Storylines
- Recognize Active Versus Passive Positions
- Deconstruct a Money Concern
- Compromises Inventory and Resolution Schedule
- 5 Phase Plot Outline
- Listen for Repetitions of the Old Story
- Listen to Your Body
- Step 4. Decide What to Change in Your Money Story
- 4 Basic Inquiries for Money Story Evaluation
- What Is Your Investing Mindset?
- The Psychology of Change
- The Neuroscience of Change
- Principles of Change
- Regard of the Use of Money
- Personal Feedback Questionnaire
- A Context for Mentoring Change: Neutrality, Empathy, Insight
- Before, During, and After Story Components
- 24 Considerations to Construct a New Money Story®
- Step 5. Map Changes
- 14 Principles to Organize the Plot of Your New Money Story®
- 7 Techniques to Edit the Plot of Your New Money Story®
- 6 Step Action Plan for Achieving Goals
- Possibility Thinking
- 18 Caveats on How to Avoid Story Ownership and Change
- Debt Stories
- Debt Cycle Stealth: Plastic Cards and Elastic Boundaries
- A Debt Quiz
- 7 Guidelines to Anchor Yourself in Financial Reality
- 7 Guidelines to Establish a Healthy Money Story
- Step 6. Author New Experiences
- How to Mentor Change: 12 Principles
- The Basic Mentor Coaching Model
- Basic Tenets of Mentor Coaching
- Coaching Interactions
- Navigating Transitions
- Your Money Mission Statement
- 10 Steps to Advance the Plot of Your New Money Story®
- Strategic Goal Pursuit
- Why Are Bad Choices So Easy And Good Ones So Hard?
- Success Insurance for Completing Goals
- 14 Ways to Outsmart Your Brain to Spend Less
- 11 Steps to Ignite Change
- Step 7. Program New Identity
- Twelve Basic Principles for Change and Transformation
- Your Personal Balance Sheet
- The Old Art and New Science of Visualization
- Money and Success: 18 Caveats to Evolve a New Money Story
- 32 Guidelines to Further a New Money Story®
- 12 Maxims to Sustain Growth
- Module 3. MASTER STATES OF MIND
How to Understand States of Mind
- Access to Mind States
- Continuity of Self
- Establish Self-Empathy
- Self-Reflection
- Let Go of the Past
- Construct a Present Context
How to Regulate States of Mind
- A Structured Inquiry to Recognize Feelings
- Regulation of Feelings and States
- How to Get Centered in Your Body and Experiences
- Grounding and Centering Exercises
- Management of State-Specific Issues: Blocks, Chokes, and Slumps
- Choice Enhancement
- What’s Your Investing Mindset?
- Sleep On It: The Neuroeconomics of Striking When The Iron Is Cold
Module 4. MIND MATTERS AND BRAIN BUSINESS
- Symbolic and Emotional Meanings of Money
- Money, Mind, Metaphor: Your Personal Money Psychology Quiz
- The Psychology of Money
- The Neuroscience of Money
- Many Brains in One
- Rational Money and Emotional Money
- Marooned in the Right Brain
- The ABC’S of Money Mistakes and Financial Fallacies
- 10 Principles to Apply Neuroscience to Investing
- 6 Guidelines for Making Grounded Money Decisions
- 17 Common Investing Pitfalls and Their Remedies
Module 5. ADVANCE THE PLOT OF YOUR NEW MONEY STORY®
- Self-Statements
- Your Story Becomes Your Life
- Become Your Own Authority
- 15 Caveats on Being Your Own Authority
- An Exercise in Authoring Your Own Reality
- Review and Revise Belief Systems
- Choice Architecture
- Inquiries for Beginning a New Money Story®
- Structure Positive Focus
- Creating Time and Keeping Power
Module 6. CAREER AND MONEY: PURPOSE MEETS PASSION
- Core Value Investing in Your Career
- Value-Based Goal Setting
- Finding Your Passion
- 18 Career Enhancement Caveats
- Systems and Leadership
- Creative Criticism and Problem Solving
- A Systematic Method for Reviewing and Solving Problems
- Career Assessment: Core Values, Goals, Changes, Obstacles
- Identify and Remedy Work Addiction
- Are You Addicted to Less?
- Why Managers Succeed or Fail
- Common Managerial Problems and Strategies
- Recovery From Job Loss
Module 7. MONEY AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP STORY
- Communication and Connection
- Effective Money Conversations
- Information Processing and Communication Facilitation
- Learning and Performance Styles
- Illuminate Hidden Assumptions
- Articulate Implicit Contracts
- Respect and Communicate Different Points of View
- Transference in Relationships
- 12 Relationship Principles
- Master Storylines of Money, Power and Gender
- Recognize Assumptions About Money, Power and Gender
- The Gender of Money: An Exercise for Couples
- The Us Story
- A Relationship Story Exercise
- Leadership Based on Relationship
Module 8. MONEY SUCCESS PARADIGMS
- Patterns of New Learning: Four Phases
- Evaluate and Address Five Types of Resistance to Change
- Success Phobias
- Are You Afraid of Success?
- Success Self-Inquiry for Women
- Success Self-Inquiry for Men
- Success Intoxication: Recognition and Prevention
- A Self-Coaching Summary
- Paradoxes Inherent in the Process of Growth
- 6 Step Action Plan for Achieving Goals
- 16 Step New Money Story® Growth Plan
- 25 Guidelines for Living Your New Money Story®
- The Wellness Revolution
- Wellness Defined
- Wellness as Choice
- The Wellness System of Energy
- The Economics of Wellness
- Why Is Change So Difficult?
- An Application of Change
- Listen to Somatic Stories
- The Mindset of Wellness
- Identify Body Language
- Wellness Initiatives
- Wellness Mind Mapping
- Brain Programming for Wellness
- Wellness Focus and Visualization
- Life’s Ground Rules, Part I: Paradoxes and Antipodes in Story Construction
- Life’s Ground Rules, Part II: 30 Caveats of Successful Being
- ROADMAP for a New Money Story®: A Client’s Work Pages
- A Meditation Model
- Case Study: An Application in an Unlikely Setting
- Little Things Count
Module 9. THE WEALTH OF WELLNESS
NEW MONEY STORY GLOSSARY®
ADDENDUM